All Your Divorce Questions Answered

typewriter typing divorce agreement after collaborative divorceHow long does it take to get a divorce in Wisconsin?

The exact length of the divorce is different for every couple. There is a required 120 day waiting period in Wisconsin before the divorce is granted. In general, a divorce usually takes six months to a year to be finalized.

What do I do if I want a divorce?

A petition must be filed in the county of residency. After, the spouse is served with divorce papers. If you want a divorce from your spouse, it’s best to consult with an attorney to determine what option is right for your situation, what the next step is, and what documentation is needed to finalize the divorce.

Is everything I tell my lawyer during a divorce on the record?

This is one of the most common myths about divorce: that the spouse is going to know about your visits and the information you give during your meeting with your lawyer.  The truth is that all of your visits to your lawyer—and everything you say at the meetings—is confidential. Everything said is between you and your lawyer.

Can I get an annulment instead of a divorce?

An annulment is a decree that makes it seem like there never was a marriage, whereas a divorce is a legal end to a marriage. To be granted an annulment, the couple must have solid legal standing to ask for an annulment, such as fraud, incapability to consent (impairment, etc.), underage, coercion, bigamy, impotence, incense, etc. (More information about the difference between an annulment and a divorce can be found here, but the best way to find out if your marriage can be annulled is to contact a lawyer.)

Do I have to go to court for my divorce?

Typically, there are court appearances required during a divorce. However, the amount of time needed varies depending on whether you choose mediation, a collaborative divorce, or a litigated divorce.

What are my divorce options?

You don’t have to have a highly-contested divorce like you commonly see on TV. There are other options for divorce in Wisconsin, including mediation, collaborative divorce, or litigation. (More information on divorce options here. Contact a local lawyer to discuss and decide which option for divorce is right for your situation.)

During mediation, the couple meets with the mediator to come to a mutual agreement in all important areas, such as finances and property. For the process to work, the couple needs to be able to agree without a significant amount of dispute (which may mean this is not right for all couples).

When a collaborative divorce is chosen, each spouse hires a lawyer to represent them. The lawyers and spouses set the meetings to discuss important areas, and may bring in experts to resolve issues (such as an accountant or child custody specialist). In a collaborative divorce, there is some time spent in a courtroom but that time is minimal because major issues have been decided.

The third option for divorce in Wisconsin involves more court dates, and is the typical process for a couple who cannot decide on key issues. A divorce cannot be finalized until all key issues (i.e. financial, child custody, etc.) are resolved.

The materials on this website are provided for informational purposes only and do not constitute legal advice. These materials are intended, but not promised or guaranteed to be current, complete, or up-to-date and should in no way be taken as an indication of future results. Transmission of the information is not intended to create, and the receipt does not constitute, an attorney-client relationship between sender and receiver. You should not act or rely on any information contained in this website without first seeking the advice of an attorney.

5 Tips to Know Before You File for Divorce in Wisconsin

WI divorce agreement legal paperworkDivorce. Child custody. Financial asset division.  There are a lot of issues for you to deal with in a divorce, and it’s normal to feel like you need a manual to understand all the legal aspects of ending your marriage.  To complicate things, your specific manual is going to be different from any of your friends or family because every divorce is different. However, there are five general tips you can use to educate yourself before you go through a divorce.

All consultations are confidential.

This is one of the most common myths about divorce lawyers: that your spouse is going to know about your visits and the information you give during your meetings with your lawyer.  The truth is that all of your visits to your lawyer—and everything you say at the meetings—is confidential. Everything is between you and your lawyer.

Make the most of your time with your lawyer.

Use the time with your lawyer wisely (use these tips); go to each meeting equipped with a list of questions and information your lawyer requested so you can make the most of your time (and funds).  After each meeting, ask your lawyer what information you should bring to your next meeting for a smooth and (hopefully) efficient process.

School yourself in child custody terms.

If there are children involved in your divorce, take the time to learn some of the main legal terms involved in determining child custody. The Wisconsin court system has processes—and penalties (more about the legalities of child custody and child support here) when it comes to child custody and child support.  Know the child custody terms that come up in your divorce proceedings now, and use an experienced lawyer to help you navigate through the child custody proceedings.

Ask your lawyer about your options.

Not every divorce goes to court to decide serious issues; there are other avenues for couples to agree on issues together.  To be clear, both parties need to agree during the process, called mediation.  During mediation, a facilitator meets with you and your spouse (and your lawyers, if you wish) to work through issues in your divorce.

Experience counts.

When you feel in over your head, it pays to hire an experienced lawyer who can assist you through the process.  They can help you navigate through your specific situation so you feel like you’ve hired the manual to navigate through your divorce.

The materials on this website are provided for informational purposes only and do not constitute legal advice. These materials are intended, but not promised or guaranteed to be current, complete, or up-to-date and should in no way be taken as an indication of future results. Transmission of the information is not intended to create, and the receipt does not constitute, an attorney-client relationship between sender and receiver. You should not act or rely on any information contained in this website without first seeking the advice of an attorney.